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Anyhow, it'll be great if things start to change, and we have different scenarios (eg..seeing parents that raise their kids without the whip).Afolabihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05811670308614659267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5946808618650407410.post-41900771471444887382009-03-27T09:55:00.000-02:302009-03-27T09:55:00.000-02:30another point: The reason our parents were quick t...another point: The reason our parents were quick to use the whip was cos they did not have the TIME or PATIENCE needed to get us do what they wanted. Reemember, Nigeria is a very tough country for parents and things that need to be done will not wait. Most of the time they were tired, upset or plain frustrated alreday from their jobs.<BR/><BR/>One has to take all these factors into consideration before doing stuff just cos our parents did them.<BR/><BR/>Do you have time on your hands? will you be willing to spend more than five minutes explaining why something is wrong to your child? Are there any other ways, books, films, etc than can help you in your explanations? <BR/><BR/>If you have the time and energy and the will to listen to your child, them most times, it works.<BR/><BR/>However, if you are already angry and frustrated which most people are most of the time, the whip is faster.Waffarianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06039619178621668954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5946808618650407410.post-84065421259440822482009-03-27T09:49:00.000-02:302009-03-27T09:49:00.000-02:30Funny enough, the point I got from your friend tot...Funny enough, the point I got from your friend totally different from yours.<BR/><BR/>"She claimed that children who are not smacked, but raised under the whole "we can talk it through" way, tend to feel that the world, in certain ways, revolves around them, and that they think that they can solve all problems and feuds by simply "talking it through"<BR/><BR/>I think that clearly shows why there is so much VIOLENCE in the world.<BR/><BR/>WE SHOULD BE ABLE TO SOLVE ALL PROBLEMS BY TALKING IT THROUGH. <BR/><BR/>If she really thinks that way, then I find it very sad that people in the world go around thinking that we can not "talk" through our problems, cos we can.<BR/><BR/>Talking through things does work. One does not have to resort to "corporal punishment" which I think is quite violent anyway. I work with kids everyday and it WORKS! Just cos our parents believed in it does not make it right. We all have to get more educated on the subject. There are so many kind and wonderful men and women all over the world that were not raised with the whip and yet they are doing good.<BR/><BR/>Nigerians just need to read more on this matter and get the proper knowledge. <BR/><BR/>We do not have to do the same things as our parents. We can learn another way.<BR/><BR/>Yes, it can be frustrating but imagine how gratifying it is to see a child make the right decisions all by him/herself.Waffarianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06039619178621668954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5946808618650407410.post-80316272186815266172009-03-19T13:13:00.000-02:302009-03-19T13:13:00.000-02:30I'm gonna beat the shit outta my kid.Ok, not to so...I'm gonna beat the shit outta my kid.<BR/><BR/>Ok, not to sound so bad, when he or she needs whicpping, he will get it...after making me go to the market to buy my own cane? hmmmNaijaBabehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15047508513628654957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5946808618650407410.post-91318464945319957622009-03-11T11:50:00.000-02:302009-03-11T11:50:00.000-02:30@ AlooFar....It's a good thing, you've tak...@ AlooFar....It's a good thing, you've taken your stance on it. I wonder if with this my opinion of C/punishment, I'll still ever spank my kids (that's if I do have any), because it seems the easiest way out to pass the message.<BR/><BR/>@ Stand Tall- the activist....Both ways of bringing up have their pros and cons. I guess in different situations, each can be helpful.<BR/><BR/>& Naijadude: Hey how's it going..long time!! So you're the old-fashioned type!, but try to take it easy with the whipping, when you do have kids.<BR/><BR/>@ Osondu..How far? Is spanking a must? I'm sure it can be done without. But it's not like I demonize people who do it, my parents did whip me! But I feel, if it is to be used, it should be used less of, and other means of punishment should be explored, and I wonder if ever there'll be a time when Nigerian culture morphs into one where these other forms are entrenched in it.Afolabihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05811670308614659267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5946808618650407410.post-25157602257746183052009-03-11T10:44:00.000-02:302009-03-11T10:44:00.000-02:30I agree with all you said - perhaps punishment lim...I agree with all you said - perhaps punishment limits our ability/desire to question. <BR/><BR/>I don't however think punishment should be done away with in its entirety. The Bible does recommend it. I agree less of it should be done. Spanking is a must...but it should be done sparingly, only after reasoning with the child has proved futile.Osondu Nnamdi Awarakahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00828719217990670598noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5946808618650407410.post-929663400339712272009-03-10T12:39:00.000-02:302009-03-10T12:39:00.000-02:30I am from the old school and I believe in some sor...I am from the old school and I believe in some sort of punishment! In as much I am a firm believer in spanking the butt once in awhile, I did appreciate the lil "lessons" I got then, but I still look back on those and thing most of it were unjustified!<BR/><BR/>Based on my experience thus far, kids shouldnt be beaten just because you feel like.. Thats assaulting the kid... Nonetheless I wont hesitate to employ some light tapping if "lets talk it thru" doesnt seem to work!Naijadudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17383737455194263039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5946808618650407410.post-57529356248905105442009-03-07T09:38:00.000-03:302009-03-07T09:38:00.000-03:30I was whipped ( cable wire was used on me even)a l...I was whipped ( cable wire was used on me even)a lot as a child for everything and this had a bad effect on how I related with my mom. I thought she must really hate me...<BR/><BR/>I wont mind doing a lot of "let's talk it thru" with my kids. And if I have to spank it will very mild...<BR/><BR/>A child that is talked to in all might have this aura of superiorty but a time will come in his/her life where the lesson learnt thru "let talk" will be valuableThe Activisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10208721217617791119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5946808618650407410.post-44683440339188047572009-03-02T10:03:00.000-03:302009-03-02T10:03:00.000-03:30Thoughtful. But I'm against C/punishment... in any...Thoughtful. But I'm against C/punishment... in any guise.<BR/><BR/>... you don't come off as someone who has been whipped with "Omorogun".Chris Ogunlowohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08885085905043779320noreply@blogger.com